Safety
AI is always disclosed
If you're ever matched with Pairly AI while we find you a real person, it's clearly labeled - every time, no exceptions. You will never be left wondering if you're talking to a human. This isn't a feature we might remove later - it's the reason this rebuild exists.
One tap ends anything
Block and report happen instantly, mid-conversation or mid-call. No forms to fill out mid-crisis, no waiting for a response - the interaction ends the moment you decide it should, and the other person loses access to you immediately.
Every video call is checked
The first moments of every video call are automatically screened for explicit or harmful content before the call is allowed to continue uninterrupted. This isn't a reactive system - it's a check that happens before harm occurs, not just after someone reports it.
Minimal data, by design
You can talk to real people without creating an account. As a guest, we only collect what's strictly needed to keep the platform functioning and safe - no browsing history, no ad-tracking profile, nothing sold to third parties.
Reports are reviewed, not ignored
Every report reaches a real review process - not a black hole. Repeated or severe violations result in permanent bans, and patterns of abuse are tracked across accounts and devices, not just single incidents.
If something goes wrong
1
Tap report
One tap, mid-conversation or mid-call.
2
It ends immediately
The interaction stops right away, no waiting.
3
We review it
Every report is reviewed. Repeated violations mean permanent bans.
How moderation actually works
Report submitted
One tap, from either party, any time.
Automated screening
Video calls are checked for explicit content in real time.
Human review
Every report is looked at by a real person, not just a filter.
Action taken
Warnings, temporary limits, or permanent bans depending on severity.
100%
Video calls screened
1 tap
To block and report
24/7
Moderation coverage
What we don't do
We never let AI pretend to be human.
We never sell your data to advertisers or third parties.
We never ignore a report.
We never require an account just to have a conversation.
We never leave you stuck with someone you've blocked.
Safety questions
Harassment, explicit content sent without consent, hate speech, threats, or anything that violates our community guidelines. When in doubt, report it - we'd rather review too much than too little.
No. As a guest, you're identified only by a temporary session - no name, email, or personal details are shared with the person you're matched with.
Every report is reviewed by a real person before any action is taken. A single report doesn't result in an automatic ban.
No. Language matching uses your stated preference, not your location - your general region is never shared with the person you're talking to.
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