Community Guidelines
Pairly connects you with real strangers, instantly. That only works if people treat each other well. These guidelines apply to every conversation - text, voice, and video.
Treat every match like a real person - because they are.
Leave a conversation politely if it's not for you. Skipping is normal, and expected.
Assume good faith until someone gives you a reason not to.
Harass, insult, or threaten anyone you're matched with.
Pressure someone to continue a conversation they want to leave.
Share sexually explicit content, especially without consent.
Expose yourself on camera or send unsolicited explicit images.
Share content involving minors in any sexual or exploitative context - this results in an immediate, permanent ban and may be reported to authorities.
Share graphic violence or content promoting self-harm.
Attack anyone based on race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, nationality, or disability.
Use slurs or hate speech, even "as a joke."
Encourage self-harm, violence, or harm toward others.
Be upfront if you're an adult, since Pairly is strictly 18+.
Impersonate another real person.
Pretend to be someone you're not to manipulate or deceive a match.
Advertise other services, products, or social accounts unsolicited.
Attempt to scam, phish, or extract money from other users.
Use bots or automation to farm matches.
One tap blocks and reports anyone violating these guidelines. Every report is reviewed - repeated or severe violations result in a permanent ban. See our Safety page for how the review process works.
These guidelines may be updated as Pairly grows. Using Pairly means agreeing to follow them.